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Sylphy   05-22-2026, 05:21 PM
#1
I honestly cannot tell why, but despite my lengthy efforts at restoration I still feel this sense of missing something. I look whole, especially when soft given I have 100% soft coverage, yet I am still haunted by this feeling of incompleteness.

I don't have this feeling of wholeness and intactness that others proport themselves feeling once they get to the point of "passing" and it deeply bothers me.

Your pain is real, your feelings are valid.
Don't lose your humanity.
Restoration is only a half-measure, make them pay for our REGENERATION 
sgtkwol   05-22-2026, 06:55 PM
#2
I'm going to say this bluntly, but I don't mean it to be mean. You might always feel that way to some degree. Restoring gives us something better than what we're left with, but not everything. If you have unresolved issues, therapy might help bridge that gap.
Sylphy   05-26-2026, 06:17 PM
#3
(05-22-2026, 06:55 PM)sgtkwol Wrote: I'm going to say this bluntly, but I don't mean it to be mean. You might always feel that way to some degree. Restoring gives us something better than what we're left with, but not everything. If you have unresolved issues, therapy might help bridge that gap.

That is very true. Unfortunately therapy is woefully outside my financial means right now.

Your pain is real, your feelings are valid.
Don't lose your humanity.
Restoration is only a half-measure, make them pay for our REGENERATION 
Old-guy   06-28-2026, 07:19 PM
#4
(05-22-2026, 05:21 PM)Sylphy Wrote: I honestly cannot tell why, but despite my lengthy efforts at restoration I still feel this sense of missing something. I look whole, especially when soft given I have 100% soft coverage, yet I am still haunted by this feeling of incompleteness.

I don't have this feeling of wholeness and intactness that others proport themselves feeling once they get to the point of "passing" and it deeply bothers me.


In a sense, you will never be complete because restoration cannot restore the frenulum or the ridged band. Nevertheless, I think the majority of restored men are reasonably happy with the result. I wish I could be of more help.
Sylphy   06-29-2026, 02:36 AM
#5
It's very difficult to accept... I wish I could get more out of my restoration when I initially started it purely out of emotional and mental healing. It feels like despite the progress I've made, the fact it'll never be "100%" intact really sinks into me. I wish it didn't bother me as much as it did.

Your pain is real, your feelings are valid.
Don't lose your humanity.
Restoration is only a half-measure, make them pay for our REGENERATION 
  
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