When my father was born, he was not circumcised. At age six, he reportedly developed an infection and was circumcised, apparently without anesthesia, as he suffered great pain.
When I was born about 20 years later, according to my mother, he insisted that I be circumcised, so that I would not suffer the pain that he experienced! In those days, doctors erroneously believed that infants could not feel pain, because the nerves were not yet myelinated. They even did open-heart surgery without anesthesia!
My father apparently believed that all intact boys developed infection, so in his mind, my infection would be inevitable. When I was born, little information was available. I believe that he was well-meaning and trying to protect me based on the limited information available, so I do not bear feelings of hatred and resentment
I learned that I had been circumcised when I was nine years old. I was so shocked that I lapsed into silence and could say no more.
In my community at that time, only about one-half of boys were circumcised, so I learned what I was missing. Needless to say, I was NOT happy about my loss, but there was nothing to be done.
Later as an adult, I learned about the existence of non-surgical foreskin restoration because of BUFF’s announcement. I started to restore right away. At this time, I am fully restored and have been for several decades.
I became an intactivist after NOCIRC was organized.
This post was last modified: 06-20-2026, 01:46 PM by Old-guy.